Listeners write Mike and Tricia with their thoughts,comments, and problems. The latest is from a listener who went through her boyfriends phone and found messages from other girls. Now she wants to know how to bring it up when she was obviously snooping.

My boyfriend left his phone lying around the other day and I shouldn't have done it, but I went through and found messages from his ex girlfriend and some texts from girls I've never heard of before. None of them were bad or anything, but I don’t like that he's talking to girls and I don't know about it.

It’s really been bugging me and I want to bring it up but if I do he will know I snooped and then probably think I don't trust him. I mean I did before but now I know about the ex and the other girls and now I’m feeling all upset and insecure. What now? Please help!

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